The wave of adulthood, b.2

The new flame of adulthood.

Written by Tegan Loren on 27/5/2024

The wave of choice and decisions,

Which way to go in our rights of passage.

Our bodily transitions move us through our processes, forging our own pathways, and I have an opportunity of sharing my perspective.

I am grateful to share, trusting this is being received with the respect it deserves.

From Boy ➡️ Manhood.

I've been on this journey before, many times in fact. Influencing and inspiring the experiences of 3 sons. Within this experience with the exceptional life of Master A, 18 years old.

His life, a projection of the chaos that he lived in. 2 homes at the age of 2.5, living in dispute because of an inability for communication.

Caught up in the hurt and pain, it was projected on to the two offspring we had come to co-create together.

So it's here, I acknowledge that my daughter and son, are dealing through their hurts and pains that have resulted in an overconsumption amount of hurt and pain.

Unintentional sorrow and despair being projected into a home, ultimate creating a disharmony, within the home where conflict kept us on our toes.

Survival survival.

The calling for vulnerability was knocking.

We create in the

Surrender, surrender, surrender.

To fathom the experience of universal law on gender

"The law of gender manifests in all things as masculine and feminine. It is this law that governs what we know as creation.

The law of gender manifests in the animal kingdom as sex. This law decrees everything in nature is both male and female. Both are required for life to exist."

The gender of law - https://lawsoftheuniverse.weebly.com/the-law-of-gender.html

Here, we come to explore our genders, inquiring into the a-gender.

How is it to "raise" our young people up into elevation?

⭐ E Q U A L I T Y ⭐

Man and Womb-bearers, rising up together in unity?

I honour with gratitude the men and women in my life, I honour each soul that co-creates moments that turn into longstanding memories.

My experiences of having 1 father, 2 brothers, 2 husbands, and 3 sons, is one that has certainly been a reflective process for me.

I stand firm within the bounds that my love for the immediate "familial" male connections that continue to show up and flow through in my world, with no expectations within our heart units, and creating wholesome family that contributes to the long lasting love.

Blood or not blood, it's the human species experience that keeps us pondering with curiosity, what our lives in unity could look like?

How we want to be loved, and I'll speak for the "me" in this is, We came here to be in a currency of exchange of love. The transactions moved from being loving energy, to money.

Our home, it's an open space because within my heart there is spaciousness to love and share that love without expectations.

I surrender over my life to being the highest serving within my natural capacity, within the humanness, I can also experience and capture, to create an open hearted home for community.

I adore having visitors at my home here in Lonnavale, despite the imperfections of the uncontrollable experiences, I hold high regard to bringing it back to love.

And it's there, my young men are led into their experiences.

Honouring the men who are the others. With you know it or not, your impact is creating inspiration within the collective of manhood, and beyond that, the collective of both genders.

Continue forging the path into your manhood, my young loves of sons.

Two contained with their love, from the hurt and the pain, and one completely open and fearlessly loves  mother, mother nature, mother biology, a woman within his dad's home that shows him a love of a woman, his teacher, his social worker, his connections femme friends, and so on and so forth.

We all have aspects of resonance to what I'm saying. It may be provocative to the human self, except on not speaking into that aspect.

I'm digging deeper.

Into living.

We can all be it.

No trying.

Loving. 

❤️

Thank you to my dear brothers, who have love held for by us all.

Thank you to my dear sisters, who continue to raise me up in my womanhood, and be honourable beings with my world.

I value all of the life that has been brought into mine.

Whether man, or woman, your soul is loved beyond the a-gender and I appreciate the flow on influence that each individual has had in my human experience.

I hold accountability for often not showing up with my best self to relations, because I'm surrounded by hurting people right now.

It hurts.

However, I recognise it's here, I continue to change the narrative.

From my heart to yours, thank you for reading.

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